Have you ever been invited to a micro-wedding? If so, then you might have wondered what your dress code should be. When deciding on your outfit for this type of event, there are many factors to consider, including the time of year and your level of formality. For instance, if it's summertime or in the middle of spring, a more casual look may be perfect for a micro wedding. And if it’s an evening affair or held in the wintertime, you’ll want something fancier than casual clothes would allow.
But one thing stands out — your attire should be minimal. This is true for two reasons — the first being practicality and the second being comfort. Learn more as we share some insights into dressing for micro-weddings.
Micro-Weddings & Their Level of Formality
Micro-weddings are smaller, more intimate weddings. They can be a lot less formal because they're not expected to have the same number of guests that traditional weddings do. If you're attending a micro-wedding, you don't have to worry about formal clothing in most cases. The idea of a micro-wedding is that the day should be all about celebrating the love between two people in an intimate setting and not centered around a huge event with hundreds of guests.
So, you have to think of what you wear in terms of how you're going to feel. Ask yourself if the clothing you're considering is comfortable? Does it make you feel good about yourself? And does it fit your style and personality? If anything, try to wear something that makes you happy. Minimalist aesthetic clothes are a perfect option when you want to keep them simple.
Why Practicality & Comfort Matters
When you're invited to a micro-wedding, one of the first things to consider is the practicality and comfort of your attire. Think about the climate and where you'll be for the ceremony and reception. Will you be outside during a cold snap of fall or in a tent outside without air conditioning during the summer? What is appropriate attire for the wedding theme?
Practicality matters, so ensure you're dressing for the occasion. If it's a more casual or formal affair, your outfit will need to be appropriate. The same applies to the level of comfort when choosing attire to wear. Minimal doesn't mean uncomfortable, so keep this in mind.
For men, a minimal look could be a simple tie or a button-down shirt without the jacket. If it's a more formal affair, you can add in some accessories like cufflinks or opt for sporting your jacket with classy cap-toe dress shoes. For women, minimal dressy attire such as a monochrome cocktail dress may be the best idea for staying comfortable in your surroundings. Minimalism is all about keeping things streamlined and easy with your attire choices.
Benefits of Wearing More Casual Attire to a Micro-Wedding
Wearing more casual attire when attending a micro-wedding comes with its own benefits, including the following:
Casual attire comes in a variety of styles, so you won't have any difficulty finding something that suits your taste and style preferences
It's much easier to coordinate your attire with the wedding theme and everyone else
As a guest, you'll be less likely to clash with the bride or groom when you're wearing a more minimal or casual style
Casual attire is easy on your wallet as it doesn't require any fancy or expensive additions, like designer hats or jewelry, for instance
Do's and Don'ts
When it comes to wearing minimal attire, there are a lot of factors to consider. To make it easier for you, we’ve created a list of do's and don'ts for guests when it comes to dressing for a micro-wedding.
Do's:
Choose clothes that have a loose, comfortable fit and wear flats instead of heels — you’ll be on your feet all day.
Add some pops of color to your outfit with accessories or a colorful pair of shoes.
Wear clothes that you’re comfortable in.
Limit your jewelry to one statement piece — you can even design your own jewelry to ensure it stands out.
Don'ts:
Avoid wearing anything too tight or revealing (especially if you're unsure of the dress code).
Avoid wearing black and white, unless you're the bride or groom's parents — it will make it difficult to distinguish who is a guest and who isn’t.
Wear the same colors as the bridal party — you don’t want to look like you’re trying to be a groomsman or bridesmaid if you’re not.
What to Wear at Your Next Event
There are always exceptions to the rule when it comes to what constitutes appropriate attire for any stylish event, but there's no harm in following these guidelines if you're not sure where to start. It can be daunting enough just choosing an outfit for attending a friend's or family member's special day.
When choosing an attire to wear to a micro-wedding small wedding, it's not about extravagance. It's about making sure every piece of outfit you choose is practical, comfortable, and meaningful. This means that while there may not be as many guests in attendance at this kind of event, it's still important to look your best.
Author bio:
Jennifer Oppenheim is the CEO of Just Men’s Shoes, a company that offers the widest variety of shoes for men for all occasions.